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Don't think that things would be better with someone else.
Unless you address problems, the same lack of skills that get in the way now will still be there and still cause problems no matter what relationship you're in.
"You can't communicate while you're checking your Black Berry, watching TV, or flipping through the sports section," she says.
Problem-solving strategies: Even partners who love each other can be a mismatch, sexually.
Everyone is drinking, peering into their screens and swiping on the faces of strangers they may have sex with later that evening. “Ew, this guy has Dad bod,” a young woman says of a potential match, swiping left.
Her friends smirk, not looking up.“Tinder sucks,” they say. At a booth in the back, three handsome twentysomething guys in button-downs are having beers.
It’s setting up two or three Tinder dates a week and, chances are, sleeping with all of them, so you could rack up 100 girls you’ve slept with in a year.”He says that he himself has slept with five different women he met on Tinder—“Tinderellas,” the guys call them—in the last eight days. ”“We don’t know what the girls are like,” Marty says.“And they don’t know us,” says Alex.
Dan and Marty, also Alex’s roommates in a shiny high-rise apartment building near Wall Street, can vouch for that. “She works at—” He says the name of a high-end art auction house. And yet a lack of an intimate knowledge of his potential sex partners never presents him with an obstacle to physical intimacy, Alex says.
When asked if they’ve been arranging dates on the apps they’ve been swiping at, all say not one date, but two or three: “You can’t be stuck in one lane …
Problem-solving strategies: You and your partner can learn to argue in a more civil, helpful manner, Silverman says.
Make these strategies part of who you are in this relationship. Do you see certain things that cause you not to trust your partner?
Many do this by reading self-help books and articles, attending seminars, going to counseling, observing other successful couples, or simply using trial and error.
All relationship problems stem from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle Shimberg, author of Blending Families.