Friend finder adult
You then single yourself out over all of the other the competition.
Your first message is key, it will make or break your chances.
As with other sites though you need to chat with the member for a while to see if you can trip them up.
Of the 10 or so years I have used these type of sites there have always been scammers.
It has gotten worse in the last few but you can still fine some real members if you look carefully.
This allows them to claim millions of members when in fact depending on the service up to 90% of them are fake.
They really need to track the IP addresses of these scammers and delete the repeat offenders. Of all the sites I have tried Adult Friend Finder seems to be the best.