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I'm a professional Matchmaker based in Los Angeles, what I affectionately refer to as “the Baghdad of dating.”The dating scene is rough in LA (and in every other city, and in every other town,...
I am going to blow your mind right now and magically read all of your guy friends' minds: the answer is YES. A majority of straight, single men would sleep with a majority of women.
A part of me wants to say sorry to all of the men who may think that I am portraying their entire species as horn dogs, but another, much bigger part of me thinks #sorrynotsorry. This is the single most misinterpreted fact about men that women cannot seem to wrap their heads around, because sex for women is totally opposite.
It also makes this rule inconvenient because sex is incredible. When women have sex, we release the hormone oxytocin which is the “cuddle” hormone that literally makes us experience feelings of love, happiness and connection.
When men have sex, they release dopamine, which is simply a surge of pleasure.
Men who primarily meet women through apps experience the same feelings of frustration and have the understanding that meeting an incredible woman is challenging, but they have a Vegas gambling mentality when it comes to dating.
The dating apps condition guys to feel like dating is like playing the slot machines at the Venetian.
I know that it's super depressing to think about, but when going into war, you need to understand the terrain that you are entering.
Be your open, charming self, have fun on your dates, yet keep your wits about you and your options open… Let me explain to you the mentality of many men using the dating apps on the reg.
This is going to be hard to swallow, so take a deep breath and a sip of that Pinot.
Most women would never even dream of sleeping with a majority of the different men in their lives and are way more discerning when it comes down to who they will actually sleep with.
This category is exponentially smaller than the first category.